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Husband of 13 years had a 22 month long affair with my good friend. AMA
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We are reconciling and going to therapy. I haven't heard from her since and neither have our mutual friends. I sometimes feel like this is my villain origin story.

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The point is being vindictive lol

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It's one thing to disagree with Christianity. Fair game.

But Jesus definitely preached a gospel of forgiveness to his followers. The ability to forgive is like a core aspect of being a Christian.

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French women are certainly more empowered socially and financially than American ones, and that is one culture where infidelity is fairly normalized.

But also, you're still stuck in a world of projecting your own values onto other cultures. On top of infantilizing women who supposedly don't have American levels of empowerment.

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22 months is almost 700 nights having dinner with her and their kids

Typically, when a married person has an affair over X months, they're not with their AP every single day. They might only see them once a month.

22 months, might mean they've only actually met 10 times, for example.

My wife had a 3 year affair, but they only met 9 times over that period. The first 2 years, they only met 3 times total.

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What's funny, is that in reality, religious people are much more tolerable and pleasant to live around on average than avowed atheists for whom nothing and noone is sacred.

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You definitely beat your children, with that mindset

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Yes, your one anecdote means that everyone in the world is just like you

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