This is a thread for questions and discussions that I might specialize in, starting with the topic of what goals and strategies should be in your life after reaching your penis enhancement goals.

My background: I started PE with the purpose to fix the pain I had during sex, which was caused by an overly-tight SLP (wikipedia link) which gave me a severe upright angle. Leaning back during missionary sex was painful and I injured (tore) my lig twice. My techniques of slowly stretching my ligament while erect are part of this subreddit's wiki and I think every man should be aware of SLP function as well as potential for deformity with a shaft kink.

Results of my PE: My starting BPEL was 5.25" and now it is 7.25". Some of that is access to inner shaft length that I could not reach before, and some of that is better erection quality though fitness and edging training. I discovered that I was blessed with a Coke-bottle shape (CAD design link video) and my hidden shaft was ultra thick, measuring 6.75" in circumference. Recently as I've continued to utilize my length with marathon sex, its now possible to feel a thinner spot below this thick area, effectively giving me an bulbus glandis or erection knot.

My focus after PE: I've always worried about premature ejaculation, so I tried to learn to control my orgasm since I first got married. Since then I have learned that it is a blessing to be able to orgasm easily, and a better goal is to learn how to orgasm multiple times or get erect more quickly after ejaculation. This is a personal journey that is unique to each person's life and anatomy.

Tips or topics for you to focus on after PE:

• Erection hardness training: what techniques work for you to get to diamond hardness and stay there.
• Kegel relaxation training: muscles around your cock need to rest at times to perform their best. A man needs to be able to relax his pelvic floor during a sexual encounter and during normal life activities
• Cardio and breathing health: blood flow is critical to sexual performance and enjoyment. HIIT workouts are the secret for the success of many people, men and women
• Sexual techniques and edging: knowing yourself is important, as well as teaching your partner. The same is important in reverse, they need to know themselves as well as how to stimulate you.
• Hip and leg flexibility: you can't use your whole length in some positions without joint mobility
• Log body fat: this is critical to so many things in life, and sexual health is one of them
• Energy management: Knowing when to expend extra energy and effort vs be efficient and gentle, can really increase enjoyment in so many ways
• Stress management: my body just doesn't perform, and yours won't either with high stress. Recognizing stress in others is a new skill I'm learning

Current lifestyle and hobbies: I'm back again prototyping toys and I want to make an ergonomic revolution to make toys easier to use for people with disabilities. Plus I also like to use them on my multiple partners, for extended bedroom activities. I still push my body to its limits with swinger marathon sex, learning how to plan out an evening for the most orgasms for each of us. I've gained control of my expulsion phase of the ejaculatory reflex as well as emission phase, so I can do them separately. I believe that the full-power kegel pulsations that I can do continuously, makes my erection fill much larger to my partners. They all comment about how much harder my shaft is, and how much more active (twitchy) my cock is when they play with it or when it is inside them. So far, they all insist on feeling my orgasm pulsate inside them, none of external porn cum-shot activities happen in my bedroom.

Stuff to ask about: I get asked about making your own shaft harness all the time, and it is easy to make. Just be aware of the risks when using any tool on your body. All my posts and videos are public and free on the internet, just use google to locate whatever you are interested in.

Things I struggle with after PE: Being too big is a thing but can be overcome with patience. Often women are impatient and if I let them ride me, they hurt themselves trying to take all of my size at once. Things go better if I put them in missionary and slowly stretch them out, and after we each have an orgasm then I will let them ride me. I still have not found a woman who can fit me oral without difficulty, because of my glans thickness, length and hardness. I'll have them enjoy foreplay while I have a semi, but they shortly give up as I reach max size. Even my wife who used to enjoy giving oral has mostly given up. Anal also is no-go. Libedo and nocturnal erections are as if I'm a teenager, I often wake up each morning with a sore dick from over an hour of being erect during REM. I'm tightly circumcised, and a larger erection means my skin is even tighter than before. I can't be rough with it by myself or during sex, and often I will have to tell women to go easier on my dick. I can't pound women with high friction like some of them want.