So my daughter who is a freshman In high school had been asking me to have a pool party in our backyard and finally I said ok. She said she’d be inviting boys over too which was ok but this was the first time she’d ever invited any to the house. She told me everyone that was coming and it was her friend group of like 12 and 8 boys. Anyway, in no way shape or form am I trying to sexualize these girls but obviously as a dad of my girl this age I wanted to be aware of what was happening. One of her friends who is quite a bit “more developed upstairs” we’ll say was wearing a very very small bikini that was a thong bottom and had her breasts pretty much pouring out. I’d never really heard about 14 year old girls wearing thongs before and talked to my wife and we both thought it would be appropriate to ask her to change into a larger swimsuit or call her parents and talk.