I (21M) recently broke up with my girlfriend (22F) of 5 years, We’ve been having some issues lately, mainly revolving around her clothing choices and social plans. She’s been dressing a lot more provocatively than she used to, wearing outfits that are super revealing when we go out. I tried to express how uncomfortable it made me, but she said she wasn’t dressing for anyone else but herself and that she should be able to wear whatever she wants.

The breaking point came when she and her friends started planning a girls’ trip to Miami. I’m not naïve — I know what goes down in Miami during these kinds of trips, especially with how her friends are. They’re all single and like to party. I told her I wasn’t comfortable with her going, especially with how she’s been dressing lately, and asked if she could at least change her outfits a bit or reconsider the trip. She refused and said I was being controlling.

I couldn’t take it anymore and told her that if she didn’t respect my boundaries, then we were done. She got mad, said I was insecure, and accused me of trying to control her life. I broke up with her on the spot because I felt like she wasn’t respecting Me.

Now, her friends are blasting me online, calling me controlling and misogynistic. Even some of our mutual friends are saying I overreacted and that I should have trusted her. But in my mind, I feel like I was justified because I was just asking for some respect and compromise. AITA?