Me (21m) and my 9 month gf(20f) got into an argument over our thoughts on having strippers on bachelorette parties. It started off by her asking if I would ever have one in my bachelorette party. I say no because I don’t like them and also because I don’t think that is respectful towards my partner.

She says the she wants one in hers. Her reasons are that that is what is typically done in movies.

Then we proceed to talk about strippers in general. I say I don’t like them and that I hope that my parter doesn’t get involved in those environments.

She replies telling me that she does want to be in those environments. She also said that she doesn’t want to change entirely for me and that there is still things that she wants to do. I completely get that. I don’t want to get her away from the things in life she wants to do however I don’t think going to strip clubs and having strippers is something you do in a relationship. I find that disrespectful.

What should I do? Thoughts?

The reason I post this is to see other points of views and see if im in the wrong.