I (M24) had to sit down with the woman (F21) I've been seeing for the last couple of months and tell her I was not happy with our sex life. She is very much a pillow princess and isn't receptive to my needs, nor will she follow through on what I'm trying to teach her. She has an orgasm every time we get at it, and I finish sometimes, but I like good oral sex and going for rounds, which she doesn't want to do. I didn't give a request, but I expressed my dissatisfaction because of the lack of reciprocity in bed and asked if she thought it was best to stop having sex and focus on our friendship since I was not getting what I wanted. Addressing this gets right, and I don't want to resent her bc she doesn't please me, but other pillars of our relationship are significant. Sex is a communication-based thing, and I want to be her man, but I can't do that if she isn't fucking me well.