Were both in our 2nd long term relationship. when we met she was doing all the work for the ex an some family. a real housewife all while working a fulltime job

Atm we both work fulltime no kids I financially support us I'd say 80/20 to that end She doesn't keep up her side of chores barely cleans up after herself anymore is lazy an procrastinates all responsibilities in favor of her own personal hobbies claims she's to tierd or doesn't feel good or will simply say she'll do it later. Later never comes whenever she used to do these same tasks for 4-5 people weekly alone now she can barely do even half that amount with someone helping I don't understand an whenever asked she has no idea an can't explain her behavior. I've asked her to take charge of the bill as she's done them our entire relationship it's only gotten worse an bills pile up more an more things going unpaid bc she forgot I offer help she claims she's fine

There's countless other examples. It feels like I'm being used for the things I provide us I've had countless conversations with her about communicating an needing help but literally nothing changes not her behavior not her attitude nothing I'm at my end I don't know if It's a good idea to stick it through an wait for her to want to be/do better or leave her be an let her figure it out on her own