I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and at first it was great, once or twice a week we would have sex, pretty much whenever we saw each other, the rest of the relationship was great too. Lately it's been significantly less however, maybe once ever 2 or 3 months and I'm feeling completely starved. We talked about it and she said that she's been working on her emotions and she's been getting a lot better (wont fully disclose this part out of respect for her privacy). This talk was 3 months ago and I feel like we've made no progress. I have a very high sex drive so this complete lack of sex is just leaving me dissapointed at this point. I know im doing enough in the relationship I get her gifts, treat her well and serve as a person to talk to or shoulder to cry on whenever she needs it but I don't know how we went from once or twice a week to barely ever having sex. It's strange and I want to bring it up again but I don't want to feel like I'm forcing her or pressuring her. I'm just worried if it's going to continue like this because my needs feel like they just aren't being met. And whenever i ask about it I'm kinda just brushed off with a "oh be patient" or a "don't worry it will be better soon" but then nothing changes. Am I the asshole for wanting more sex in my relationship?