Last year,I met a girl (fake name Riley) on a hookup site, we got each other's snaps. We chatted for a while and got to know eachother. It was discussions about films, games, bands.

We have different schedules and neither of us could host so we had trouble finding a good time to link especially since we did live a 45 minute drive away.

One november night she voice messages me. I can hear by the sound of her voice she is sad and I ask what's wrong. She essentially tells me about how unhappy she is with her life. She tells me she had been drinking and tells me about her strained relatinship with her family (dad died, mom doesn't talk to her, sister doesn't talk to her, lives with grandparents who don't like her), and it comes down to her past relationships. She tells me about how terrible they were and I comforted and consoled her.

We finally link up in December. The night after she calls me by accident telling me she's drunk and chipped her tooth. I make sure she's ok and she tells me she realizes she should cut back on drinking, I agree.

We continue chatting about random stuff practically every other day and she essentially comes to me for reassurance and advice.

In April, she tells me she got drunk again and a stranger had to uber her home. She tells me a couple similar incidents.

In may she tells me she met a guy at the bar and they took a road trip with friends to another city. She tells me she rejected him and he practically kidnapped her and verbally abused her in the 4 hour drive back to her hours. I offer to file a police report and she declines. She tells me how she feels everyone at the bar hates her and i comfort her.

Last month, she starts seeing a guy, let's call him Henry. She's updating me about how good he is to her. One night, she texts me if I want to link again. I say "well, isnt it weird since you're dating Henry?") and she gets mad saying "dating, he hasn't claimed me yet". I tentatively agree and we were supposed to meet at some point this week.

A couple nights ago, she texts me. She said "idk if henry likes me anymore". I asked why. (she said she had a "feud" with a bartender for a while and only just realized that the bartender was pregnant). Riley made a joke "the baby gonna come out like Chrisean Rock's baby". Henry said it was messed and I agreed. She texted "it must be bad if you're disappointed". I say, "ive been disappointed in you before but didn't want to say it". She flips out calling me an asshole.

This morning she asks what I was dissapointed about. I told her it was the episode where a stranger had to call her an uber home after she got soo drunk after saying she would cut back on drinking. She flipped out and says "i don't give a fuck, you're not my dad, fuck off, i'm not meeting you anymore". I can tell by her voice that she's still not 100% there. She unfriended me.

Was I overbearing? How should I handle this situation? Although we were really only fwb I grew to care about her. I 20 she 29