For context I’m being texting with this guy for a while, we meet in a dating site and we click almost immediately; I like how he is and how he make me feel, the thing here is that I ask him to meet up and getting more serious and probably to start a relationship, but every time I ask him to meet up he keeps telling me he needs to put his “sht” together its being months like this and im the kind of practical person who prefer things straight to the point, yes or no, my past 2 relationships were amazing without any problems and we broke up because one have to move to other country and we both didn’t like long distance relationships and the recent one we end up because he was accepted into his dream college and I didn’t want to be a distraction or the reason why he stayed so we prefer having to break in good terms. Anyway now I like this guy a lot but I don’t like have to wait a lot for someone to get ready for a relationship, or maybe I’m being to harsh? I grow up with the mentality of “white or black, no grey” basically saying that if your not ready don’t do it but if your are do it and don’t look back, i really want to date this guy but at the same time I don’t want to lose my time and hold my life until someone feels ready for something serious. So AITA for no waiting for him or should I just tell him straight I’m not interested anymore?