Hey everyone, I need some advice on a situation that's been really tough for me. My boyfriend (33M) and I (29F) have been together for five years. Recently, he had to undergo open heart surgery, and while he was in surgery, I found a second Snapchat app on his phone. Inside, I discovered two years' worth of messages, including sexting, voice memos, and pictures with another woman. She told me they had been in a virtual relationship for two years, and he had sent her thousands of dollars.

After his surgery, I decided not to confront him immediately because he was in so much pain. It's been two days, and I'm struggling with whether to wait until he feels better to bring it up. I've already decided to end the relationship, but I'm unsure if I should tell his family about his actions.

AITA for wanting to confront him about his cheating while he's recovering from surgery?