I'm a 24 African American male dating a 22w white woman. I like her quite a bit and we were joking like normal (about trauma like 2 normal mentally unstable folk) and she got triggered by it and is saying she won't talk to me about it. So some background info about it is that she won't kiss me on the lips, we have dine literally everything but that and she has repeatedly joked about wanting/ will kiss me on the lips. So she called me out on kissing her on the lips and why I won't so i told her that she never let me, she took offense to that and noe refuses to talk to me at all. She also completely refuses to ever talk to me about her friends or even about any of her trauma, we have been datinf for 6 months. I completely understand why she's mad about it, its outside of her comfort zone but she makes jokes about my trauma/ my probs all the time. Not only that but we quote literally make jokes like this every other day. Is there anything I'm missing or anything I can do?