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I live in a household with 4 other adults. Two are retired and two work from home. I’m the only one who works a job that requires me to be out of the house. I also work retail and am not able to be on my phone often. Usually not until right before or 20-30 mins after I’m supposed to be off. Most days before I leave I ask what dinner plans are. I’m usually met with “idk” or a plan of what we’re having. On numerous occasions that “idk” turns into a dinner plan while while I’m at work and some of those times I am told by one person in the house. This time I asked before I left and was told we were having leftovers which I didn’t enjoy (it was takeout I bought myself) so I mentioned I’d get something else on the way home.
I finally had a break about 40 mins before getting off and told them what I was having and turns out they’ve already planned a huge meal. I’ve already bought a portion of what I had planned to eat on my way to work since it would be closed after I got off.
Anyway, I’ve been told that I need to reach out to ask what’s for dinner. That even though the four other people in the house who typically don’t leave the house, don’t have any reasons they can’t text or anything, I need to reach out and ask if plans change or ask about dinner.
Maybe I’m looking at this wrong and that could be completely fine and if accept that, but to me it seems that the four people who don’t have to leave the house, don’t have any reason they can’t be on their phones, and are the ones who typically make the dinner plans can’t send a quick text during the day to let me know?
Again, I could just be looking at it the wrong way.
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