Sooooo my grandma took me and my sister to her dads house while she went to work, (half sister so she has a different dad) anyways he bought me an uber to the cloisters gas station and told me to walk back because he only had enough to get me there and so I agreed and I used my own money to buy some snacks, mind you this money was given to me by my aunt to buy things like snacks and Amazon because I don’t get much stuff like that and so my grandma picks us up and is furious that he spent the money on me instead of giving it to her and then was mad at me for buying snacks so then she tells me I have to use my money to but the dog food and I didn’t respond assuming she was just talking to be rude as she usually does and so then we get home and I bought a package from Amazon a few days ago and she finds out and starts screaming about me using my money for its intended purpose and not spending it on her for dog food, I get the dog needs food but we had plenty other things to feed her and which we did so the dog in the end didn’t starve, my main issue was that she was yelling at me making me feel bad for spending money on me and my little sister so we could have a fun time and then felt I’m entitled to just show up at the Walmart and tell me to go buy food. Should I have just done it?