when we started dating 5 months ago I thought she was gorgeous but as time went on she started to gain some weight and I think if I tell her that i want her to go to the gym more she will get upset and think im just calling her fat. I am not attracted to her that much anymore. I don’t find looking at her appealing I think that breaking up might be the best option because I know I can do better and she never even was “my type” we just clicked and are sorta interested in the same things. but like we don’t see eye to eye on a lot of things too political and things like that and she has a high status in our community and she makes me not dress how I want and act differently around people and I think its just not all that good anymore we argue once a week or every other week and its just exhausting so I just need some advice from other people maybe to give me a new perspective on things. thanks in advance