Obviously there are times we make judgment calls based on available information, but I feel like this sub is all about people feeling vindicated when either the story is beyond a certain limit of… person x committed 50 crimes (obviously they are awful people) and person was just a bigot or asshole.

But I feel like this sub is more for.. so, there I was in the middle of the worst period of my life. Wife is cheating on me, health issues, and my career is crumbling. AITAH for calling people out for getting upset when I call them out for abandoning me.

I get that I was doing myself no favors when confronting people, but I also have never given up on friends knowing they are in difficult situations