So at first I would let my girl wear my clothes cus she would ask for like my t shirts and boxers n stuff like that so she can wear around the house I had no issue with that, but now she grabs wtvr she wants, we have pets and a 2 yo toddler, I have told her and brought it up over 3 xs already bc she has stained or tore up or ruined several expensive tshirts nothing crazy like my designer brand clothes that I told her are off limits, but she has ruined multiple Cactus jack tshirts, Jordan and Nike shirts that aren’t exactly cheap some that are like specific drops that she literally can’t replace or will ever willingly she says I’m being materialistic but like it’s my things she is my gf we aren’t married but have a baby together so it’s not exactly like a break up situation but I need advice on how to communicate this better with her my words not working n I don’t want her to ruin any more of my clothes lol