Ok first. I have a lot of bad blood with my birth mother. When I was 18 or 19.i moved in with her for the first time. A have two half brothers. At two point I left bruises on a my youngest brother when he was young. He hit me in the nuts and I tossed him in a recliner out of my reach so I wouldn't react in pain and hurt him. Then I left two thumb mark bruises when I pulled my youngest brother off the middle brother. Birth mother ended up pressing child abuse charges. Now I will say I was narcissistic at the time. But never hurt kids. My dumb 18 or 19 year self Believed her and plead guilty even though she knew me a total of maybe three months. I ended up going to military and getting charges expunged. She even lied to lawyer and judge saying I was a former guy risk. My dad and her were deep into the drug scene when I was born. She went to prison for it. I can't fully trust anything one parent says about the other. I had a bad childhood. My dad has since gotten mental help and got clean. Plus apologized for his actions. I have a good relationship with him now but birth mother after being back in my life for three days. Told my gf that I abused my son to be x wife. Which everyone says the other way around. Plus that my gf couldn't handle school while working part time. Birth mother left me and my gf on the side of the road about thirty minutes to an hour walk from anywhere on a highway. Cause I refused to just automatically respect her and said she has to earn it. While I did show respect but not complete parent respect. She also believes cartilage can regrow and guava juice can cure cancer. She is schizophrenic and has more mental health issues. Which she is not addressing. She also is a narcissist. In April she called cops saying she was my sister. Cops told me this. Yet she denied saying it. I have my own mental problems which is why I haven't gotten certain items from her. Even though I been in a lot of constant pain without. I am 41. I have not seen here since around 2014. I won't nothing to do with her. Yet I have a triad. My gf and I are dating a other woman. We are poly and we know everything about each other. Yet birth mother has severely disrespect both m of my gfs and me.