So this story starts around 2007 or 2008. I was in high school and my mom had lots of fitness and she used to have lots of parties at the house. That was how I met her friends and since they were my mom’s friends they were older. Some were in their mid to late 20s others in their 30s and other in their 40s. There was a couple young both in their 20s, the F got sick one day and ended up in the hospital. Her condition was really bad, so bad that she almost passed away. Since that time my mom and I became really close friends with them and we helped them during this time because they both basically didn’t have family around. My friend lost her motors skills she was in her 20s but it was like she was a baby learning to do everything again. Years pass and she gets better but still need to go to doctors appointments and stuff like that and she could not drive so during the summer I would be the one taking her because I was not in school. I would come on let to their house and we would watch movies eat and get together with other friends. I would stay over we would go out late and go out the next day o would barely be at home we were family essentially. My friend got a lot better and she started working and opening up her own biosciences. I would work with her on the weekends and during summer break and when I became an adult whenever I didn’t have a job I would work with her. They had their first baby and my mom is the kids godmother and I would take care of the baby since he was born whenever she had to go to the doctor and could not take the baby. They were family and I did get paid for all I did even tho I was not expecting it. My other friend her husband opened his own business and it was becoming successful and I even worked with him as well. So it’s around 2018 and I have a pretty good job with benefits and it summer time and my hours had been cut back so I worked with my friend on his business. One day I finish with my tasks and get back to their house to leave the company truck there and get my car. I go inside to leave the keys and say hi to my friend and their baby. My she was mad about something and kind took it out on me and starting going in on me that I was almost 30 that what was my plan. That made me feel like shit and made me feel like when I turned 30 my life was over and I wouldn’t be able to do anything anymore. Things from there got weirder and weirder they were showing their true colors I guess. They had money now they were going on trips all the time and doing this and that. I remember once I came to their house and saw the backyard and it was cleared out. 85% of the tress had been cut down and it looked great but when I asked if they had gotten permission from their HOA I was told that they didn’t bother with that they much rather pay the penalties than ask for permission and I understand if you have the money do with it what you will I just thought it was a bit arrogant. It was like 500 dollars per tree or like 5000 for all the trees I don’t quite remember. Around they also bought a second home near a university and they were fixing it up and they were going to rent out the different areas that were turned into small apartments. At that time I was living with my mom and a one of my brothers. They offered me one of the apartments in the house and I said no at first but they convinced me and I decided that I was moving and so I told my mom and my brother and the lease from our place was not going to get renewed. One day I was at work and my friend calls me and tells me if I have spoken with her husband. I said no I have not talked to him but I will call him. So I did and he tells me. “ you have to find another place to live because I can’t finish remodeling the apartment the contracted is asking for a lot of money.” This would have not been a problem if I still had a place to live this all happened 4 days before we had to leave the apartment. This shook me to my core because I was not expecting this. I was able to find an apartment pretty fast which they did not help what so ever in anyway to help find. About six months after that the pandemic started and we had to quarantine so that game me a chance to put more space between us. After that happened I really didn’t go over anymore and just said I was busy. The pandemic gave me more of an excuse with all her health issues to keep my distance. One day I was thinking about everything and I was really bothered by the whole situation so I email my friend with how I was feeling and how the whole situation made me feel. Her response was that she was sorry that I was feeling that way. I’m not sure but that to me is not really an apology. We really have not talked since and I realized that they were kinda toxic. I don’t hold resentment because I take things as a learning experience and move on. My friends husbands’ dad passed recently and I did send a condolences message and he responded with. “ Thank you and we should get together sometime.” To be honest I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I want to completely close that chapter or if that chapter is completely closed and I should just keep it moving. Sorry if there are things that don’t make sense. English is my second language and I write just how I think and sometimes it doesn’t make sense. This is a long one so thank you for reading!!!!