Hi I 20f haven’t been a saint during my last year of high-school and first year of college. I did a lot of dumb but not regretful things with a lot of dudes during this time just to have fun. During this time my child hood best friends let’s call him Dave who’s 20 as well has always wanted to hook up with me during these times because he’s very close and open to me. Every time he asks I always tell him no because I don’t view him that way I have always seen him as a brother. Recently I did a group thing with a few people from my college and told him about it and lately he has been giving me grief that I let strangers and people I just met do things with me but not him who I’ve known my whole life and we have been through so many things together. Idk what to do part of me feels like do I just give in and give him a chance or do I just stand my ground? If anyone has any suggestions please let me know and I’ll update if things progress depending on some of y’all’s ideas.