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For context, I (21F) has been friends with (23F) Iāll call her āKā for only a year and a few months when she asked me to help her move 2 hours away. I currently have no job or car since I help another friend of mines with her two young girls while she works and pays me for it. Now, K has a daughter of 14 months and asked if I could help with settling in and moving so she would be alone. I agreed because I love to help when Iām in the position to do it and understand itās not easy being a single parent. Fast forward a couple months, she starts a business and I help watch the baby when she works. Itās a 2br apt but I sleep in the child room while the baby sleeps with her. She asked me if I could help out financially since she underestimated she would need assistance with everything at once. I have been trying my very best to work what I can do in my circumstances but to her, itās not enoughā¦I worked for UPS doing graveyard shifts but had to quit because I was using Lyft everyday. (She doesnāt want to get the baby up early she said) fine. I respect that. Thatās when she got upset I didnāt have money for the Internet bill and called me lazy. K will belittle me in small ways. Then I worked another on site job 11pm -7am and had to wait until near 12 pm to be picked up because again she didnāt want to disrupt the baby sleep schedule. I was DRAINED everyday for watching her baby to changing the diaper all day then watching the child so K can shower. Iām such an anxious person if she gets falls or gets hurt, Iām liable for it even if itās not my fault. Over the course of 7 months I have dropped everything to help and support and I have received little appreciation. I am very grateful she cooks, opens her kitchen to me, and allow me to sleep there butā¦I donāt even have a key. I even lost the chance to have my own bedroom because my mother was actually moving to the area I was at but K persuaded me to stay. After some more months, I stood up and voiced how stressed n unhappy I was living at her apartment. She just said she understand but claim she still need the help. So her childās father moves in from out of state and I pack my things and I move back in with mom. P. S sorry if this was super long I needed to get this off me.
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