So I’m someone who generally likes to have multiple partners.

I’m not poly or anything, I’m just a straight guy who likes variety.

And for the past few weeks I’ve had a good setup with 3 women where I would usually see each one throughout the week.

We’d go to dinner or something and then usually come back to my place and hookup.

My dating profile says I’m looking for low pressure fun. I feel like that is pretty obvious what I want.

I’m pretty open about sex and being sexual so I just assumed they know I’m sleeping around.

Well, one of the women after which was like our 8-9th time hanging out asked me if I was talking to other people.

And I said yeah, there are two other women I’m sleeping with in addition to you.

And then she asked if I had ever slept with one of these women in the same day as her, and again I said I have. Because I work from home, sometimes I’ll see a couple people in the same day if one of them has a break in their work day.

Then she blew up on me saying I’m a POS for not letting her know and leading her on and making her like me and putting her at risk.

Keep in mind we’ve never had one talk about exclusivity. But it seems she assumed a natural exclusivity was building and couldn’t believe that I was seeing more than one person.

Apparently she doesn’t think it’s ok to sleep with multiple people at the same time.

And then she went and posted me on that are we dating the same guy page. (I know because another woman I’m sleeping with told me and this woman did NOT care I have other partners after finding this out on there)

And all the women on that page were trying to drag me for using her.

But in my mind we were just sleeping together and for all I knew she was sleeping with 5 other guys.

But I’m wondering, was it my job to right out the gate disclose I’m sleeping with multiple people and that I generally like having multiple people to sleep with?

Edit: the other two women are now aware I have multiple partners and do not care.