So I'm a lesbian and I've finally came to terms with it a few months ago. Yea sometimes I still have doubts but I feel really comfortable and happy with the label. My mom knows I'm a lesbian. I've told her and she said "you still like girls?" I told her yea I do.

But everytime anything comes up about relationships it's always "When you get a boyfriend." Or "You'll care when you get a boyfriend." Or hell my fucking sister said "I'm glad you like boys again." After I told her I thought a guy looks cute. Because yea he did I really liked his hair but that doesn't mean I want to date him.

But anyways I have this one friend who my mom loves like my mom nicknamed him the "keeper" and she calls him a gentleman. And yea he is very nice. But I'm not into him. I thought I was at first but no if anything it's more like I like him as a best friend.

My sister was like "you should date him."

I said no he has a girlfriend.

My mom then said that "his girlfriend is ugly."

Like omg mom why would you say that and I said if I date him that he would be cheating and I don't wanna be a homewreker like fuck no. Plus he is my other friends cousin! So no, no way am I about to date someone in my friends family. And again I'm a lesbian and my mom and sister know this! I don't even keep it a secret anymore!

I have a flag and pins and am mostly out if the closet and I've told both my sister's that I'm a lesbian but one says "Oh stop it no your not." And my other sister says "you and your generation with that bi shit."

Like I'm sorry but weren't you the one who openly said that you where gonna become a lesbian all because no guys where dating you? Like wtf. But yea my mom and sister are kinda disappointed I won't date my friend.