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AITAH for not telling my ex about my health concern
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So 3 weeks ago, i (25M) had a doctors appointment that did a CT scan of my chest cuz they found a cyst/mass on my lung or near my lung. Well they did another scan and found it was a mass. The doctors did a biopsy and it determined it was cancer. Oddly, enough im not scared or worried since theres nothing i can do but just go by doctors orders. My soon to be ex wife (24F) (im going through a divorce) is furious at me for not wanting to spend time with her or even inform her on my health.

To be put some background on this whole thing, i found out she was sleeping around and i decided that a divorce was my only option. I dont wanna go back with her, i have no plans on seeing a future with her, i dont even smile at the sight of her.

She has been screaming at me about this whole case when she decided to go thru my room and she found the results in my night stand. She has made it very clear that she never cared or loved for me since the beginning but only used me as a way of financial stability to have a roof over her head and food in her mouth. After hearing all that, i told myself that i wouldnt tell her my health concerns or anything cuz i mean why would she care now? She has now been begging for me back and crying almost every day in hopes i stay. Her family doesn't think i did anything wrong but her friends text and call me telling me that im an asshole for not telling her anything about my health.

She has been wanting to spend time with me, wanting to take me out to eat, buy me things for my hobby, give me money to work on my car. She just wants to be near me and she has said "i want to spend these last few weeks with you since we are going thru a divorce. Plus i want to prove that im changed and not sleeping around" which of course I'm calling bs. Ive never been a clingy person but even more so now, i definitely don't want her near me.

Please comment your thoughts on this and if theres any questions I'll be happy to answer them.

TLDR; found out i have cancer, soon to be ex wife is angry i didn't tell her.

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