My lady friend 50 F has grown child 20 male that for now I’ll call Buddy. My friend has been through hell and back with this son of hers. Dad is mostly out of the picture, so she’s been doing on her own. When Buddy turned 18 he told her that he was going to skip going to college and that she needed to give home her brand new car. Then he left the home and ventured across the country. While on the adventure of his, he got in a car wreck. She had to pay for the repairs to car. For six months she paid Buddy’s rent. Then he finally got a job and was paying his own way. Anyways long story short Buddy called the other day claiming that his phone broke, can’t afford to get gas to go to work and he needs $$. I just looked at her and said change his fucking name from Buddy to Hemer and Change his last name to Roids .because he’s been nothing but a pain in your ass.