So me Male (33) and my girlfriend female (37) been together for about 10 or 11 years now long distance. Hardly see each other more so her reasoning. I'm getting kinda of tired of feeling sorry for her all the time each week. She has a bunch of health related issues but never goes to the Dr she always just deals with her pains. She isn't wealthy can hardly get a ride anywhere and every $20 bucks is like $100 to her.

She's that poor. But I'm sick of her whining and complaining when I literally tell her just go I'll pay for the gas at least. But she always makes excuses on everything not just her health. She won't get a job cause she cares for her elderly mother, her dad recently passed, and I just can't help her anymore when I don't have any money to provide. I'm honestly not happy and idk why I even stay guilt or I feel sorry for her idk.

But I'm tired of being just everyone's financial support. Anytime I give her advice or tell her how she should handle herself she gets upset idk why. She has back issues, some kind of iron issue, and her face is all swollen as we speak due to some nerve in her face causes her eye to twitch. I'm just fed up really. It's not fair that I do so much for her when she never does anything with me anymore.

I'm just tired of the constant problems and whining every week I've dealt with this for years.

Any Advice?