my first post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITAH/s/XQfMqZN5jH

i want to start off by saying i did not in any way expect my post to get the attention it got. i want to thank everyone for taking their time to comment their opinions on my situation. i appreciate it so so much.

i am making this update just to say i actually did end up leaving my bf. yesterday i told him that if he wanted me to stay he would have to do some research first. UNBIASED research. he agreed. however his research was in fact biased and it ended up reinforcing his opinion to the point where he would shut down everything i said calling it "a whole lot of nothing" and said things like "what i think is the truth and you're scared to admit it". i constantly tried to make him see things from my pov, how i would feel if i had to deal with an unwanted pregnancy, how it would affect me etc. what i got from his words is that he would sacrifice my life for the life of someone who hasn't been born yet, so that's all i needed to hear. i told him i had no choice but to leave because this was clearly something neither of us was willing to compromise on, but i did tell him i would accept him again if he changed his mind. i am very hurt because i actually loved him a lot. i have looked past a lot of things in our relationship, but this was not one of them. i dont know how I'll deal with being disappointed by the person i trusted the most.