So me and this person (let's call me lar). Me and lar have known each other since 2022, so about 2 years and I've liked lar since I met them, there kind, smart, just a wonderful person all around. A few months past and we were just staying as friends talking in and out over and over, talking about random stuff, playing games, normal friend things I would say. But they got in a relationship for a little who lars partner was toxic and blocked everyone who they didn't trust. And one year passes by.

Lar comes back into my life, saying sorry that everything happened with them blocking me and such. And then they took time for themselves trying to regroup and gather as much as they can, after so. We started to flirt with each other and like usual I gained feelings for lar, feelings that I can't keep down and I'm trying to get rid of. But one day when me and lar we're on call they told me how they felt about me and that they want to get with me but they don't want to mess up our friendship that we have, and them the next day they proceed to get into a relationship with another person.

It absolutely devastated me to the point where I didn't want to talk to lar, giving them one worded answer's. Like "yeah", "sure", etc. And then a few weeks later we started to talk again and play games and hit on each other and the full 9 years but nothing overly sexual. And then up to now

Me and lar started to gain feelings for one and another. But they started to pretty much ghost me, I text them and they take a week later to respond, and me wanting to call them and enjoy time with them. We'll during the time of the ghost they got in another relationship with me being ghosted, and one day out of the blue I got upset and started to angry text them, telling how I feel about them, telling them good bye, saying "I love you", etc.

And I cut them off because they pulled the reasoning "I'm not the one for you", to me that doesn't matter, in this life you only get one chance, you make it or break it. And I just feel like me telling them, how I feel and then stop texting them all together (note: I can still contact them) just wasn't right, it felt wrong. But at the same time it doesn't because they emotionally hurt my feelings, so AITAH or am I not??

(Note: I know my grammar ain't perfect, that's because I have dyslexia and I'm trying to work on my grammar, so don't call me out for the wrong wording and such)