So as it states above I've had some issues and these are your normal issues or maybe it is I don't know anymore anyway there is this girl at work I have used inductive reasoning to assuming she is flirting with me which is no big thing except there is a few big things I'm worried about and I'm not sure how to approach so to give a little more detail about three years ago I was raped by my ex (ps I'm a man) and I don't want to cause any unneeded damage from myself or my issues but here comes the really crazy part she is 23 about to turn 24 she is still a Virgin hasn't had any kind of relationship over 2 weeks and everyone around me keeps pushing me to take this girl on a date and I don't want to get hurt or hurt in any way shape or form and u also feel like i am corrupting something I shouldn't especially where I have been rapped I just need advice maybe a confidence booster or just tell me what I'm feeling is right and stay away from the situation