Coming soon - Get a detailed view of why an account is flagged as spam!
view details

This post has been de-listed

It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.

2
AITAH For not following through on an agreement I suggested/offered?
Post Body

Okay so I collect a type of toy, the third party market often charges 2 or 3 times the price for these items. I have had to pay those prices before just to keep my collection complete.

Now what I will call the Holy grail for this toy drops Friday. While ago I went to preorder it and a few of my friends collect this toy as well one lady for her child. I have pre-ordered before for other people. She asked if I would preorder it for her and she'd pay me back. I agreed. I went and found a friend of mine who collects select ones of this toy and said hey im going to preorder for myself and X do you want me to preorder for you as well? They agreed.

Now I'm a flexible person whenever I buy stuff for other people if they ask me to buy it (because I go to places where its easier to find niche items you won't find at local big box stores) I always tell them they can pay in installments, I only charge them whatever I end up paying for the items. Since usually I'm already there for myself anyways and hold onto it like layaway.

Now onto the man in question last time I pre-ordered something for him he asked me and I was like okay. I pre-ordered a set for him and a set for myself. I texted him the ticket and showed him the price and how much it would cost him for his set. He agreed to that and said since it was almost $40 he'd pay me in two installments which I have no issues with. Now at the time we had 2 or 4 pay periods (same job) between then and when the product dropped. He didn't pay me once and didn't really talk to me much. Well day comes I pick up the products and text him and get nothing. I hold onto the products until I see him next and proceeded to tell him. I have your stuff but you're not getting it until I'm paid.

Magically few hours later he hands me my money and I give him his stuff. So the current issue is I pre-ordered 3 of the new item. I paid for all of them and the lady already paid me for hers. He has not paid me a dime for the new item despite agreeing to. Also beyond two less than 5 minute conversations in person we haven't spoken in over a month and a half. I've texted him maybe 5 or 6 times and he's not replied its mostly not important stuff just shooting the breeze chat. He talks to other people just fine and the one important chat I tried having with him he never responded but told his brother who later discussed the issue with me and was like ohh yeah he told me about it.

I have to pick up the item/s tomorrow and won't see him until Sunday. Do I keep his item until he pays me since I agreed to do this for him or since he's been treating me crappy and ignoring me do I keep it to do with as I please (which means selling it at cost to someone else who has already expressed massive interest) the problem is these items are very popular and usually only get 1 print run of the item especially collaboration items which this one is.

Author
Account Strength
70%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
125
Link Karma
44
Comment Karma
81
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 3 months ago

Subreddit

Post Details

We try to extract some basic information from the post title. This is not always successful or accurate, please use your best judgement and compare these values to the post title and body for confirmation.
Posted
9 months ago