The first one was last year, one of my employees screamed and shouted at me because I simply asked them why they came to work late several times, not according to the timetable that I set up for them. I even told them to calm down and stop rasing their voice but they insist. I gave them one month and they have to leave.

The second one was this evening. I found out earlier that my employees stole the money, several times. And when summed them up there was a great amout. I tried to be professional and handed them the evidence. They refused. But I let them go right away.

They were the hard decisions because at first I feel sorry for them that they will have to lose their job; both of them have family to take care of have their responsibility in life. But I feel like it was not on me and it had to be done. I just have to do something that's right. But I feel bad anyway.

Talking about doing something right. I got scared both time. Since they work at my workplace. I'm scared that they will stalk me to my house and harm me. I don't know if the fear is valid. Should I be scared or worried? AITAH to do so?