Me (23mtf) & my (20f) gf of almost 3 years recently had a discussion this past thanksgiving over her family. Okay so long story short her parents are super christian fanatics & hate me with all their guts for "brainwashing" their daughter into liking women. Im a straight trans man btw so how dumb is that. Anyways me & my gf have been living together for more than two years now & they still haven't come around to accept me even though we're not breaking up anytime soon. More so we might even get married & have children in the future. So recently she decided to go to her parents for thanksgiving since all her siblings were going to be there, at first i knew i wasn't able to go which felt so shitty cause i would never exclude her like that. But whatever i let it go because she hasn't seen her family in a long time. A couple days go by and she's enjoying herself with her parents and im happy because she's happy, well things get a bit rocky afterwards. She has a sister who is lesbian (i know) and she has had this girlfriend for about 10 years now. Her parents invite them over for breakfast and mind you my gf hates her sisters gf and let it be known. Well even after knowing how my gf felt they didn't care and brought her over. After my gf confronted her mom on how she can invite her over after everything she's done, her moms response was "well she's a human being what can we do". That right there STRAIGHT PISSED ME OFF. why? because i'm a damn human being too & they still treat me like i'm the devils child. At this point their "religion" is a sad excuse for them to openly hate me. They are picking and choosing and it ain't fucking fair. Mind you i have never disrespected them, forgave them for what they did/said to me, still willing to accept them in my home. But they would rather see me die in a whole then to accept the fact that me & their daughter are building a life together. I finally put my foot down & told my girl how that made me feel. Me having to "hide" or "not be near" them is exhausting. Im 23 & feel too old to be doing this little kid shit especially with mfs i owe nothing too. She felt shitty having to cut her parents off but i let her know that i would never put her in a situation like that because she's my priority & my life partner now. AITA?