I'm the only one with a car she doesn't know how to drive. She gets rides from her sister, mom or coworkers to work or the store. She will bring her to work, leaving her in the office or take her somewhere, but I'm not allowed to move. We live together but I got family that my son spends time with. If he wants to go see them or if I have somewhere to go, I'm not going to hand my daughter to someone else or take her to work so I can.

BM - "I need the carseat and the basket taken out of your car." Me - "why?" BM - "cause you don't need to go anywhere with her and in case I might need it Tuesday." Me - "hmm😤 I'm not sure if I'm working Tuesday, but we'll see." BM - "Either way if you do work Tuesday I'll need you to get it out tomorrow."

Edit: Repost out of frustration so let's adjust details in comments