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I’m 22F and my bf is 28M, we’ve been together for 6 months now and early on in our relationship he asked me if he made me cum and I lied and said yes so everytime he’s asked me since that I still have said yes even though I’ve never cum from oral or penetration with him.
I feel bad that I haven’t said anything, I don’t want to hurt his feelings and I feel like at this point telling him would make it worse since I’ve been lying for so long.
You are right, I need to be more assertive about that.
Yea, I think it’s time to move on.
Thank you everyone for your responses and feedback! I think after hearing from everyone it’s obvious to me I need to break up with him.
Yes we can communicate more and maybe things would get better but I also think we aren’t compatible and if I was with the right person it would be easier to talk to them about this.
Def moving forward I will be more assertive and open in my communication about our sex.
Thank you again everyone!
I’ve tried to have him try different things but he just goes back to his old ways.
I’ve tried to teach him what I like but he always goes back to his normal stuff.
Appreciate the feedback! He’s sensitive so I didn’t want to crush him but maybe it won’t.
It’s really not that satisfying….I hate to say it.
I agree, I’m def at crossroads right now. He has a friend that flirts with me alot and I never really thought anything much of it but lately I have been.
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Usually when I’m on top he only lets me do it for a little then wants to go into a different position.