I (20F) have a friend I have known since high school (21F). This past weekend was her birthday. She had originally made plans for keokero and dinner but due to lack of planning on her part no one from our friend group was able to attend. I felt really bad and offered her to stay the night at my house since I didn't want her to be all alone. We made plans to go out Friday night. When Friday night comes around we are both fully dressed to go when she says that she no longer wants to come out. At this point I was a little upset but its her birthday so I didn't say much. The next day on Saturday I worked from 7AM to 4PM after I got home from work we went to lunch and target. At this point she is going on and on about how excited she is to go out. I am too despite what happened the night before.

Once we are ready we get into our uber she mumbling saying she's tired isn't sure she wants to go and things like that. it gets to the point where our uber driver is concerned and wanted to know if she was ok but anyways we arrive at the place. When we get there I was turned away so we couldn't go in. Feeling a little down at this point but I still offer her other places we can go. Now by this point my friend isn't even speaking to me. She would grunt and mumble words but not give me a real answer to any of my questions. SHE ordered another uber so we can go to another place once we get to this other place she still hasn't spoken to me in the past 45 mins At this point In the night I was getting really upset at her for acting like a child and just overall wasn't someone I wanted to be near given her energy so I basically started pleading with her and saying sorry just to get her to talk to me which she doesn't. At that point I am so over everything I tell her that we are just going home.

When we get to my house she still doesn't speak to me just starts packing her bags. When I ask her about it she says her dad is just coming to pick her up and to Venmo her for the Ubers but doesn't say anything other than that.

She texted me on Sunday while I was working saying that she only acted like that because she was upset she couldn't go where she wanted to go

so reddit AITA for not responding to her "apologies" about her behavior that night even if its not the first time she has acted this way

For context- The reason why I didn't order the Ubers was because that last weekend we went out I paid for her drinks uber and she stayed at my house

will update soon