A couple years ago my friend A got me a knife for my bday, it’s a cool ninja flip out iridescent knife.

It was a cool knife but a while after I lent it too a friend B while she was having a hard time with her abusive dad as something to remind her she’s loved. It was established then that it was only borrowed and she had it for a while.

Recently I asked for it back because I want it for a cosplay and also just because I wanted it and the stuff with her dad is resolved.

She gave it back but before hand kept demanding and demanding to know when I’d return it, telling me to make sure I don’t damage or lose it, and she kept pushing me to remind me that I need to return it despite it being MINE!

I went along because I at first didn’t mind the idea of letting her have it back but the more she pushed the more it came off as entitled considering she makes money and can buy her own and she has no right to tell me what to do with my property. I’d be happy to offer her an alternative cheaper one since she likes having protection but she didn’t seem too keen on it.

At this point I’ve reminded her that it’s mine and I’m considering not giving it back.

Would I be TA?