Main Part:

My friend and his girlfriend are a lot to handle together. A perfection example would Ronny and Sammie from Jersey Shore. Unfortunately due to my mental illnesses, I ended up with a place to sleep and stayed with him and his girlfriend for about a week. During that week, me and her got to know each other and I thought of her in a different light. She was trying to help him as he was trying to stop drinking and workout So I left for a three week vacation, within 24 hours of me leaving them, he catches a DUI. I was informed by her that they had about 9 people total in the car and after he ran a red light and passed a cop, he crashed on the other side of the road. She was the only one to stay with him. Fast forward to me returning, and the first three weeks were filled with them getting drunk and arguing with each other; most days escalating to her inflicting possible domestic (depending on your views). When they would come over to hang out, no matter what I was always doing the most and acting like people’s daddy quoted by her. She would go on drunk tirades about how I’m a horrible friend and that I need to just get out of everyone’s lives. she even got mad that I wouldn’t pay Uber to them to drive them, during one of their fights. Also, if I don’t operate on her timing, she tells him “Let’s leave!”

Details for explanation:

So before getting started: I’m 26; my friend is 25; His girlfriend is 24. I’ve been friends with him for almost three years now. I met him while I was in the Navy and we got really close. After getting hurt in two relationships back to back and going through a 304 phase, he met his now-girlfriend. Background for her is that she was talking to his one of his best friends. My first impression was that she’s loud, loves to party and acts ratchet so I wasn’t really trying to hang around him while they were together.

If there are more questions, I’m fine with explaining it better. I honestly am typing this while they are sleeping over (wanting to get smoked out) since my “mom” is friendly like that.