I (18f) dated Jacob (18m) last year for several months. When Jacob and I first started dating he wanted his mother to like me so I was always very kind to her and I loved to sit and chat with her. I had the idea that Jacob and I should together start to date our mutual ex-girlfriend Lizzy (17f). At first when we would see her she would sit across from us and I would sit with Jacob but eventually I would end up sitting across from them. I asked if lizzy was ready to make things official and she told jocob not me that she wasn’t ready yet. Eventually it didn’t matter what him and I were doing together he would drop anything and everything to be with her.. From the beginning of our relationship Jacob knew I sold nudes for money and did other things and there was a stipulation that I had to ask Jacob before doing anything and I had to see him before or after and I did and he used this against me when he broke up with me. When he broke up with me he called me horrible names and the name calling got worse when he found out I was sending screenshots of everything to lizzy and he berated me for involving her. I had gotten ahold of his sister who brought me to his house to get my things. When I got to his house he was gone he said there was a box of my things in his room. Well he was gone I seized the opportunity to make sure I had all my things and when I went to his room I found a nipple clamp from the sex toys I bought broken on his dresser and we had never used them and that’s when I knew for sure he was cheating. I collected all off the things that weren’t in the box of mine and waited for him to get home and I confronted him about what I saw and he was speechless. I took all of my things and left. Him and lizzy quickly made it publicly known they were a couple. During the school year Jacob and lizzy mostly lizzy would harass me and my new boyfriend at the time. They told the whole school I was a prostitute and a cheater. Throughout this entire ordeal I stayed friends with jacobs mother and during this time he started to treat her like shit. Jacobs mother has a seizure disorder and the things he was saying and doing were causing constant seizures. he was constantly stealing (and wrecking) the car he didn’t have a license to drive. His mother warned him for months if he didn’t get his act together he would be kicked out when he turned 18 and a bit after he turned 18 she confronted him and it led to a fight the cops being called and him being kicked out. Around the time Jacob was being kicked out I was also being kicked out so his mother offered me to rent his room. So I took the offer and it was the best decision I’ve ever made. I’ve been on my own since I was 15 and jacobs mom treats me like her own and even offered to adopt me. I have his childhood bedroom his PlayStation tv all his furniture I have gotten lots of backlash for posts online joking about me “stealing his life” so AITA.