I (22F) am friends with someone (F23) who is close to a person i don’t get along with. Over the weekend my friend texts me asking if i want to hang out at her place. I had things to do so i wasn’t able to but after a couple hours she tells me that the person i don’t get along with was there at her place. I didn’t like that and it rubbed me the wrong way( keep in mind that she’s aware of our indifferences and she’s aware that i do not want to be around that person). Anyways, I was annoyed but brushed it off until the next morning when that person texts me saying “i wanted to set up a fight between the both of us” and i immediately felt like my friend was trying to set me up and i called her about like “wth?” she understood where i was coming from and why i would feel like she tried to set me up. she said she didn’t and wasn’t aware of the texts that person sent and apologized but somethings still aren’t sitting right with me. 1. did you actually try to set me up? i don’t trust her anymore 2. if she really didn’t set me up have a made a grave mistake by asking her? i think i approached the situation appropriately but also feel like i should have never said anything in the first place bc now she’s not talking to me but i also understand she has her own things going on but when i asked if we were going to be cool she said yes she’s just depressed but idk…

aita? should i have just zipped it?

Edit: I had got her a few birthday gifts before this situation so I mailed them to her and ended up blocking her a week later. She got romantically involved with that person and hasn’t spoken to me at all since i confronted her so i chose to leave it be. i’ve been very sad and lonely. i am in such despair and i wish i could talk to her more than anything. i miss my dear friend and wish her nothing but the best but i know that we aren’t ever meant to be friends again