My wife 36 dx was diagnosed with adhd 2 years ago. This was after 16yrs of pure misery and hell. It got to the point of me telling her either we go to marriage counseling or were done. We went to marriage counseling and she was diagnosed with severe adhd. She was given medication and alot has changed for the better. The issue I have is she remembers our past interactions/ completely differently than I or anyone who was there at the time. It's like she's made herself out to be the victim when in reality it was her thta was the attacker, constantly angry starting arguments, lashing out about any comment or criticism, taking everything as a insult argument, complete innability do anything proficiently or in a timely manner. If there was a representative for adhd she would be that on steroids. I say all that to ask this. She's medicated she's doing alot better. But she remembers the past completely differently than anyone else.... I understand at the time she was thinking and everything for her was based off emotion. But how am I supposed to work through out past issues with someone who remembers the past completely differently than what really happened. Has anyone else had the same or similar issue? Any advice or guidance would be appreciated.