I had gotten a diagnosis about 12 years ago accidently. What i mean is i was seeing a doctor for something else in order to help my mom feel better about certain things as she thought my behavior was stemming from a bad divirce. Long story short adhd. Got a secind opinion. Also adhd. Went to a 3rd doctor and without telling them i got a diagnosis, they ran a few tests and bam adhd.

My friend lets call her bff...started dating her girlfriend bffgf. Bffgf has adhd and is prescribed medication which i have come to find shares some with bff for nights of partying etc. Bff swares she has adhd and now started actively looking for a doctor to prescribe her.

She always swore i never had it and i was drug seeking and thought i was trying to get meds to help keep me skinny (struggling with anorexia before medication....currently the highest weight ive ever been and no ed in mind) The last time i spoke to her i told her she was drug seeking.

She went to 2 doctors so far and has an appointment with a diff one at the end of this week. So far noone gave her a diagnosis or medication. We had a fight because she said its people like me who cause people who actually jeed the medicine to not get diagnosised like they are supposed to.

We had a huge fight. The first in 20 years. Now she wont speak to me. I called her a fake and a drug seeker and told her to get help. Now she wont speak to me saying that i called her an addict and im actually the addict. I dont think i daid that to her as i dont think shes an addict but i think she would be if this behavior continues. She said were no longer friends. Was i wrong here to doubt a diagnosis? Should i gace just kept my mouth shut?