Please help!! 😭 I’m so so so bored. I’m working a super repetitive and unfulfilling job during the weeks and live in a boring state where everything is too expensive and there’s Karen’s yelling at people for literally just walking around the neighborhood. Not to mention, covid has limited EVERYTHING!! I keep waking up and just have no idea what to do besides boring chores.

I love my partner, but I haven’t loved spending time together recently. They’re usually here more on the weekends and I used to look forward to doing fun activities. But we’ve run out of things to do. They don’t share a lot of interests with me and they seem very content just laying around all day on our phones, which is fine some days, but I’m so tired of feeling bored and like we’re not on the same page with wanting adventure and novelty. It’s a longer term relationship so we’ve had boring spells, but this one is just feeling never ending.

My partner recently hurt themselves so we can’t go and do much, which I know isn’t their fault, it just feels like even another limitation on us right now. I want to be supportive and helpful, but I’m really struggling to get out of my own head and feeling some resentment for how boring our relationship is these days. This was an issue prior to the injury that we have already had conversations about. I know they’re not responsible for keeping me entertained, but it’s just so hard to have fun together there’s days and even prior to the injury I don’t feel like they were putting the effort in to help us find interesting, stimulating, and novel things to do or try.

Honestly it’s all making me depressed from being so constantly under stimulated in life in general. I feel like I want to wake up as someone else for a day just to experience something different. I know a lot of these limitations aren’t my partners fault, but I’m struggling to not be irritable around them especially when I feel they don’t understand and end up taking it personally instead of seeing it as a larger relationship issue.

Idk I’m just so bored that it hurts and I feel I desperately need to change my life, but I don’t know how to change things and my partner isn’t understanding me. :(