My grandma doesn't understand the out of mind out of spite affect of adhd.

She doesn't understand why I have a pile of clothes on my chair.

She doesn't understand why the clothes don't make it to the laundry bin.

I would love to have my clothes folded nicely put away.

I would love to have all my dirty clothes in my bin.

I would love to remember to wash my laundry and not where maybe old clothes.

I try. I fail. I try. I fail. And in the midst of all of that I get a stern "things are going to change down stairs. Were going to put up PVC piping so you can hang your clothes."

Hanging wont work. I dont fold and put away. How am I going to get my clothes from the dryer, get the hanger put my clothes on it and hang it. I can't do three tasks so how am I going to do four.

Its not going to work I need an open dresser.

I don't even know what that is.

Shelves litterly just shelves.

Well what if you get married and they don't like that.

FUCK THEM IF THEY WANT A MESSY ROOM FINE BY ME.

My struggles are real so should my accommodations.

(Not the actual conversation just the jist of it)

Yes my room is messy but it's not messy to me I know where everything is because I can in away see it cuz it's in the open.

Don't let misunderstandings get you down, if people haven't felt the pain they will never truly understand. They can only try and yes my grandma tried, even if she is stuck in the way of PVC piping hanger.

Sigh.