Hiii! This post is specifically for all the ladies out there but guys you're welcome to chime in too... do any of you struggle with being able to be in the moment and orgasm during sex? I will be about to orgasm but then will "cock block" myself by overthinking about it (e.g. yes im going to come this is about to be mindblowing, shoot stop thinking about it im gonna lose it) or some other kind of thought (e.g. thinking about my kids/ paperwork/ the dang BED squeaking/ the sheet is slipping under me). I also get very impatient when I am not getting there quick enough and I feel like I should be. I am married and have been with my husband for 20 years. I have always been in my mind but it's so much more now since having kids and really becoming an adult that I feel like it is truly distracting and interfering much more with my satisfaction during sex. Anyone else in the same wheelhouse?