As in, because of your condition you can forget things like texting people, birthdays, etc. or maybe struggle to find a time to hang out IRL or talk on the phone, among other things.

Because of that, you feel like you have no right to judge others for doing the same to you even if they do not have ADHD or a similar 'excuse'/reason, so you let it go and don't feel all that emotionally affected by it, or if you are, you may brush it off because you don't feel like you get to hold other people to standards you don't meet.

So maybe because you may not text someone for several days or weeks, when someone does the same to you, you feel like a hypocrite if you feel some type of way about it, even if they do not have a reason for it like you do.

I'm lucky in the sense that I'm only 20 and don't have too much social experience, everyone I've met have been pretty nice, so I haven't experienced being taken advantage of because of it, but I wonder if anyone feels similarly and may have had their kindness taken advantage of.