Guys I need some help. Every time I’m tryna start a relationship or talking to a new girl I always get crazy obsessed. I feel like this is probably an adhd thing, bc it’s kind of like a hyper focus. I also overthink way too much.

If it helps I’m also like college age so I’m also pretty young and generally more immature for relationships. I just don’t know, I feel like I always overthink every time smth isn’t perfect. I also love talking to people that I like and I feel like really annoying almost. I just need some help because I feel like I get obsessive and it scares people away. The overthinking doesn’t help either.

For example, I’ve been talking to this new girl for the past couple weeks, and I’m starting to get into the overthinking obsessive phase. I just know I’m gonna be too much and scare her away again, I’m desperate guys please help.

edit: another reason i’m so desperate is if i let myself really like somebody and it doesn’t workout i spiral really hard and dc about anything