MY GF and I have been having a lot of issues. I recently moved countries to be with her. I have been here 3 months, and I still looking for a job, friends and everything else. I struggle with change, and different routines and habits. Since we got here, I have been missing home, my family and friends. It's been really hard and I have found my coping mechanism to be the house. I do go out, but the house is my safe space. Through all of this, I have felt stuck and lost and wondering what to do. I can't find a job in my field, and looking for work they excites me is so difficult. Anyway, my GF has said shes sick of me doing these things, and doesn't want to wait much longer for me to take action to build my life here. But heres the thing, I am doing it at my own pace. She just doesn't understand what goes on in my head all day every day. Applying for job is a day full of anxiety, procrastination and distraction. I really am trying to build a life here but it's only been 3 months!! For someone like myself who needs far more time to feel comfortable I am feeling pressure and forced rather than support. I know can never fully understand what it feels like for me, but I am sure some of you can? Simple life tasks are so hard especially being somewhere new and I am starting think maybe I am just better off alone than putting all my shit on someone esle.