No matter how much I plan , make lists, set aside times and certain days, tell myself( and my husband who also has ADHD and bipolar 1 ) that we are going to do this and get it done . It never happens!!!!!! Ugh😩 sometimes I get close but most of the time I get a bunch done from all over the place and in reality it looks like I have done nothing. Or I work so hard for so many days that I send myself into a flare and am in bed for a week (i have many physical health problems and a rare genetic condition) and while I am in bed my kids and hubby undo everything I did so when I finally get back up I'm right back where I started it or even farther behind. It has been a long vicious 12 year cycle. Idk what to do anymore but I will never be able to finally relax mentally emotionally or physically until I can get my house finally organized and clean to where I just have to only do a little each day to maintain. Any ideas would be more than appreciated ati just honestly needed to vent TIA🙃🙃