Loose under bust - 37 Snug: 36 Super tight: 35

Standing bust: 43 inch Leaning bust: 46 inch Lying bust: 45 inch

Us sizing recommendation was a 36H/I.

I have semi conical breasts and definitely not heavy on the bottom. I think I am more top heavy. I’ve been wearing 36C bras. And they fit (unlined) but breast does spill out so i thought going to a D or DD would be better. I definitely am not an H or I as I have seen pictures of someone with 36H and I’m MUCH smaller tissue wise.

I have tissue that extends under my armpit that is so frustrating. My breasts do not seem big at all but will not fit into a a-b-c cup range. They are also wide set. All the GREAT problems to have :(

I tried a 36E and it was way too big. The cups were huge. I have an aerie 36D t-shirt that fits pretty well (armpit spillage sort of) but then I have an unlined sunnie 36D where the band is way too tight.

I’m legit giving up and considering breast surgery just to have a normal shape so I can find bras.

What can I do and where can I go to find a solution??