I finally got some money and decided to go to Nordstrom to get myself a new bra.

I will say, I was very impressed how nice the girl working in the lingerie section was. She didn't bat an eyelash when I informed her I was looking for a 40 H bra, didn't try to tel me that couldn't possibly right. She simply said "OK, well all our bras in that size are probably in the back. If you want, you can look around while I go get some."

Anyway, yeah, props to her for not trying to make me feel like an idiot, which has been my usual experience in trying to buy bras.

Unfortunately, all the bras she brought out to me were soft cups. Objectively, I have no problem with them. They can be pretty, and if you like them, all the more power to you, but I don't. I always feel like my nipples are way too obvious when I wera them, and it makes me feel uncomfortable. But when I asked about one in my size in a molded cup, she said that companies stop making them after a DDD. Is this really true?

If so, I doubt I'll ever find a bra I truly enjoy wearing and feel comfortable in.